Critical Commentary WILD
Megan C. Brown suggests from a New
York times article, the thought of a new, “sub-genre”, a self-help memoir.
Brown writes, “These memoirs have much to say, to be sure, about physical and
psychological self-care, but they also teach readers about the biopolitically
linked matters of normative productivity, efficiency, and the management of
relationships, particularly as these function within the context of US
neoliberalism.” (360)
“The
memoir encourages readers to look within and find a way to be productive rather
than self-destructive…” (366). I find comfort in this kind of reading, a way to
cope, and to deal with similar struggles I’ve encountered. I have a dysfunctional
family, I have seen firsthand friends and family struggling with drug abuse, as
well as experiencing loss. With all these examples, I can relate to some of
Cheryl’s experiences, and reading someone else’s perspective gives me exactly
the kind of self-help Brown refers to.
Page
259, Cheryl says she is like a guy sexually. DETACHED. Cheryl admits to her
therapist a personal, and emotional secret. This is a time in Cheryl’s book,
where she reevaluates her circumstances in comparing herself to a man,
sexually. In this part of Cheryl's life, she is searching for a kind of
self-fulfillment, an understanding of the way certain circumstances impacted
her life. Cheryl sees the resemblance in her gender with the opposite sex.
There is nothing wrong with shared gender traits between sexes, and I think
Cheryl sees that when she accomplishes the 1,100 mile walk on the Pacific Crest
Trail. We should be able to poses the traits of each gender without it being
degrading. A woman with a lot of sexual partners is perceived as promiscuous,
and has a problem, but a man, well, that’s just normal.
Brown mentions the book Go Ask
Alice, my all-time, go-to book as a young teen. I have looked to this
particular book for some kind of security, because being able to relate, gives
me a sense of liberation. Learning that you are not the only one, that there is
a way to get through circumstances you thought would be the end of you,
provides a feeling of freedom, of self-awareness, and acceptance. In the
thought of a new sub-genre, I agree that it would benefit readers looking for a
specific story, for some kind of “self-help”. From familiarity, I have read
these types of books, looking for that exact self-actualization in my own life experiences.
Thank you for sharing your own experience of turning to memoir and other books to help you through difficult times. Why do you think books are so powerful in these ways?
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